i just became disabled paralized on my left side i have tried so many places that are set up to help i am also i disabled vet and they wont help i have worked 38 years for this country with out ever asking a dime from any one i am a single dad of 4 and need ramps and my bathroom redone so i can at least enjoy some kind of freedom once again and take care of my kids as a father should can any one tell or direct me as what to do??